Love Letters to a Unicorn explores the world of kink and BDSM through the submissive perspective. This book explores the various aspect of kink: power exchange, fetishes, community and consent. The author, Rebecca Blanton, uses a personal perspective of three decades living as a submissive along with academic research to explain various aspects of kink.Essays cover how kink and BDSM compliment third wave feminism; how the kink community's approach to consent contribute to the larger consent discussion post-#MeToo; what everyone can learn from kink; the unique psychological phenomena of sub space; and more!The first edition was nominated for the Geoff Mains Award for nonfiction and the Golden Flogger Award for nonfiction.The second edition has been updated to make the language more accessible, to address some of the concerns readers expressed with the first edition, and to include new essays including updates on consent conversation and sub space.